Castle Rock dad spends 6 weeks helping COVID patients in NYC, returns home to boisterous reunion

Paul Boykin amazed at resilience shown by others
Posted at 6:08 PM, May 22, 2020

DENVER -- When Paul Boykin was asked if he wanted to go serve on the front lines of the COVID-19 pandemic in New York, the young Castle Rock dad jumped at the chance.

His wife, Alicia, was fearful, but supportive.

She said she had to replace her fear with faith that he would come back in good health.

He did.

Alicia, and the couple's three children, 6-year-old Paul, 4-year-old Solomon and 2-year-old Eden, drove to the airport from Castle Rock for a boisterous reunion Friday morning.

With masks over their faces, Alicia led the children into the main terminal.

Eden carried a large inflated eagle balloon, symbolizing American freedom, while her brothers both wore "I Love NY" t-shirts.

The children were anxiously awaiting their father's return, after his six-week stint at Jacobi Hospital in the Bronx.

Alicia came up with a novel way to help the kids countdown the days until their dad's return.

"We made a chain rope with papers," she said. "We've been cutting (a link) every day, so to throw the last one away was fun."

After patiently waiting in the terminal for about 30 minutes, the kids spotted their dad as he walked off the escalator.

"Daddy!! Daddy!!" they yelled, while darting between other passengers, to jump into his waiting arms.

Paul hugged each child, and then his wife.

He told Denver7 he saw things in New York that many nurses with 20, 30 or 40 year careers never see.

"Death and dying, but also people coming home," he said. "That's the biggest thing, people coming home, being able to say thank you and seeing them leave."

He said he was struck by the number of care-givers that got sick, and recovered.

"Just yesterday we had a party for one of the first co-workers that contracted COVID, really sick, intubated at one point in time. She got to go home," he said.

The "agency" nurse said the work wasn't easy.

"I think I did about 35 days straight, 12 to 14 hour days. But I got the day-shift, so that was good," he said.

When asked what he'll remember most about the experience, Boykin replied, "the resilience of people. People of all different walks of life coming together. Being what, really, the United States is about, a united group of people."

He said he's happy to be home.

When asked what he plans to do first, he said, since restaurants are closed, he'll probably go home, catch up on some sleep and just enjoy being with his family again.

Alicia said there's been a little more chaos without Paul, noting that she's been in charge of a household with three very active kids.

She said she's looking forward to "sharing" parenting duties again.

"Tag, your it," she said. "I might take a nap before he does."